I had sex with a boy, afterwards I cleaned myself up and left, I didn’t call him up until the next time I wanted sex. Ironically, I knew everything about him, but he would never know, I knew his childhood sexual abuse haunted him, I knew he was scared of the dark because he felt …
I want to tell you a beautiful valentine’s story, I want to tell you about date nights, vacations, romantic picnics, staring into the stars, loving someone and being loved back. I want to tell you about butterflies, about how salt met the ocean and wouldn’t let go. I want to show you what happens when …
I’ve been living for myself for 2 beautiful years. I’ve been anywhere (and everywhere) between “very single” and “very complicated”. I drank too much for a summer, and then became sober for a year. I graduated from university , and then applied for graduate jobs. I worked 2 jobs at some point and bought myself …
When my friend invited me to go to a farm for the weekend, the first thing that came to my mind was to text back; ‘sorry I can’t make it, the farm isn’t really my scene’. But deep down, I was lowkey curious and my love for lifestyle and adventure made me type; ‘this is …
‘My recipe for life is not being afraid of myself, afraid of what I think or of my opinions.‘- Eartha Kitt Lately, I’ve become intrigued with Eartha Kitt, her life, her journey, her experiences and her story. I saw a lot of myself in her and I loved how much in tune she was with …
“We haven’t been together for some years, but I never deleted your city on my weather app. I found a strange sense of comfort and peace in being able to look at your city and at least know what the weather was like near you. That’s all I knew about you after we ended. You …
What exactly is perfection? Who makes the rules for perfection and who sets the standards? Perfection is unattainable, draining and nothing but a fantasy. Follow my train of thought here please; to me, Tracy Ellis Ross/Beyonce are perfect, to a lot of people also, Michelle Obama is the definition of perfection, to others, Kim Kardashian …
Secret Santa is here with a few tips and tricks for going out on a budget in Abuja, you don’t always have to break the bank to enjoy or treat yourself . My emphasis is on Abuja because I have lived here most of my life so this is the territory I am really familiar …
If you are on my socials, then you probably know I was in Lagos a week ago attending SMWLagos and it was really enlightening and eye opening. I learnt so much and I had an incredible amount of fun there. It was a combination of education and fun. On the first day, I had to …
Taking a few seconds to clear up the cobwebs here, I’m even choking a bit, this place is so dusty. I’m here because my younger brother called me from uni and is still on phone with me while I type this, I’m 5 years older than him, but I’m blessed by how accountable he holds …
